A BDSM munch is an informal social gathering for individuals interested in or a part of the BDSM scene. Originally, these gatherings were first referred to as "burger munches," because the first ones were held in steakhouses where attendees could socialize and munch on burgers. Munches are not held for the purposes of playing or "shop talk," but strictly for socializing with like-minded individuals. These gatherings are usually held at restaurants or sometimes in private banquet rooms, and are frequently advertised via the Internet.
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Attending your first munch can be a bit intimidating. Those who are new to the scene should realize that these gatherings are for socialization only. This means that you should respect the other attendees and refrain from treating the gathering as an educational seminar or a BDSM scene. The dress code for most munches is generally very casual. You should refrain from dressing in full BDSM regalia. A touch of tasteful BDSM in your outfit, however, will often be received well.
You should also keep in mind that there are some rules of etiquette that should be observed when attending a BDSM munch. For instance, it's generally considered to be bad form to pursue - or even speak to - a submissive wearing a collar. A collar usually symbolizes that that person is a submissive already in a committed BDSM relationship. As a general rule, you should get permission from the submissive's dominant before speaking with them. You should also avoid being overly aggressive with attendees about their personal details, as this is considered to be bad form, especially considering that most individuals in the BDSM community value their privacy.
