Do-Me Queen

Do-me queens are often very frustrating and draining for most dominants. In fact, this is usually used as a derogatory term. Although the sub may think it's cute or funny to try to control a BDSM scene, most dominants (and even other subs) typically see it as a sign of inexperience or selfishness. Remember, nobody likes a selfish sub. To make sure you continue to have someone to play with in the future, squelch the control issues and play along like a good little sub. Otherwise, you may want to consider becoming a dominant or a switch instead.