Perfect for when you find yourself with three people in the bedroom, the Doggy With A Biscuit sex position ensures everyone is actively receiving pleasure—while simultaneously providing a fantastic view for two of you.
The position's versatility also allows pairings of all genders and genital configurations to have a fantastic time.
To get into this sex position, we recommend starting with the person who will receive oral sex. Find furniture of the proper height and have this person sit down and spread their legs. If the partner receiving oral sex is a wheelchair user and they are able to open their legs, they *may* be able to stay in their wheelchair for this position to work.
Next, the middle partner can get into position. They will get onto their hands and knees and crawl between the seated person's thighs. If this partner has chronic pain and/or disabilities that make this position harder, have a discussion with all involved about pain levels and check in frequently.
Finally, the insertive partner can kneel behind the person who is giving oral sex to penetrate them. This may require some angle adjustments to ensure everyone can do their "job" correctly—but once you get it, you're all in for a blissful banging. You may want to have pillows and other options available to aid the insertive partner in doing so comfortably.
As people who enjoy group sex know, changing up positions happens often—and unexpectedly—so do your best to find the most fluid way to get into the Doggy With A Biscuit that works best for your crew.
More About Doggy With A Biscuit Threesome Position
The Doggy With A Biscuit position allows everyone in the threesome to receive some type of physical sensation—whether that's via penetration or oral sex. At the same time, the position's set-up allows for a lot of interaction between partners—feel free to take breaks anytime to make out or enjoy touching each others' bodies.
The Doggy With A Biscuit sex position works best if everyone works together as a cohesive team. Smooth, fluid thrusts will work best from the penetrating partner—rougher movements could cause the oral sex giver's mouth to constantly move out of place. If the person receiving oral sex has a penis, these fluid, smooth thrusts may be even more important to avoid dental abrasions.
As the Doggy With A Biscuit is a mixture of common, low mobility sex positions, it'll likely be a solid choice for most people who desire a threesome. However, there are many ways to modify it for everyone's comfort:
- If the weight of the oral sex receiver's thighs are creating uncomfortable pressure on the middle person's shoulders, you might have the oral sex receiver spread them further apart and place their feet on the floor.
- If the middle person needs more room to provide oral sex, the oral sex receiver can lean back—or lay down completely—to provide more space.
- If the middle person or the penetrating person require more cushion for their knees, introduce some pillows!
- If the middle person requires more support to comfortably stay in a doggy style position, consider slipping the Liberator Flip Ramp underneath their abdomen to help support their body weight.
- This position may be completely inaccessible to you due to chronic pain and/or disability and that is OKAY.
You may need to experiment with location to find the best place to try the Doggy With A Biscuit position because the person receiving oral sex will need to be the perfect height for the person giving oral sex. An ottoman, couch or the edge of a bed might be perfect—but don't be shy about trying some sex furniture! We recommend the Equus Wave from Liberator—that'll make it easier to find the perfect spot.
The Doggy With A Biscuit is designed to work with someone who can achieve penetration—but that's not a prerequisite! With a strap on's help, you can add a dildo to make penetration possible—or to give non-penis-owners in the threesome a turn in the penetrating spot ("If you don't have homemade penis, store-bought is fine!"). While you can experiment with many types of strap-on harnesses, a harness designed to go around the hips is going to work best with this threesome sex position.
If no one in your group is interested in penetration, you may want to swap it out for frottage or dry humping. In this case, the "insertive" partner grinds against the middle partner instead of penetrating them.
The most important thing here—as with any sex position—is to find what works best for everyone involved.