If your couple's vibrator is remote-controlled, we recommend ensuring the remote is paired and ready to go. The penetrating partner then kneels in front of the receiving partner's butt, leaning forward to penetrate in a standard Missionary position. If desired, the receiving partner can then wrap their legs around the penetrating partner's waist.
More about the Missionary Vibes Sex Position
Missionary position is a bedroom staple for a lot of reasons:
- The simplicity. One partner lays down and spreads their legs, and the other climbs on top. The instructions are simple and easy to understand.
- The connective face-to-face contact. Your face is close to your lover's face, giving you ample opportunity for connective eye gazing and making out. It also makes it extra easy to talk dirty while enjoying your partner's reaction. ;)
- The full-body skin contact. In addition to that sultry eye contact, Missionary gives you all the oxytocin-boosting benefits of all of that skin-on-skin contact.
- The friendly strength requirements. While Missionary still requires some strength, especially from the penetrating partner, its strength requirements are much lower than some of the other sex positions out there.
- The familiar. While you probably don't see the Cartwheel position often in movies, almost every movie with a sex scene uses the Missionary position. It's what people are familiar with!
The Missionary Vibes position takes all of those awesome things about Missionary position and bumps them up to 11 with the addition of a couple's vibrator. A couple's vibrator is a unique, U-shaped vibrator designed to slide inside of the vagina. One end of the "U" stays outside of the body, pressing against the clitoris, while the other end of the U slides inside the body, pressing against the g-spot with help of the tension from its outer-anchored end.
This internal end is slender and specifically crafted to leave room for a penis. So, you can use it during penis-in-vagina sex! During intercourse, the partner's body helps anchor the couple's vibrator in place, pushing the g-spot end further into the g-spot (yum!) while pressing the clitoral end down onto the clitoris. It's a win-win from both sides! While all of this is happening, powerful vibrations stimulate everyone's erogenous zones, allowing you both to share in the pleasure this sex toy offers.
While skin-to-skin contact is one of the benefits of Missionary position, it can also be a bit of a hindrance when it comes to adjusting a couples vibrator. This is why some couples vibrators (like the Chorus) are equipped with remote control. This allows either partner to adjust the vibrations on the fly without needing to pause the pleasure. We promise, it's a really helpful feature!
Modifying the Missionary Vibes Sex Position
Once you both are lost in the moment, the receiving partner might consider wrapping their legs around the penetrating partner's waist. Pulling their knees up to their chest to facilitate this motion can help push the couple's vibrator further into the g-spot. It also can make everything feel tighter, so if there's already too much pressure for either partner, consider keeping the receiver's legs along the floor like in the Classic position.
The Missionary Vibes position can easily be mixed with any other Missionary position variation. You can use a couple's vibrator with elevated hips like in the Hamstring Stretch position, or you can use it with a position like the Happy Baby position. Its versatility is part of what makes he Missionary Vibes position such a great fit for lovers who enjoy Missionary on the regular.
However, the Missionary Vibes sex position may not be a good fit for everyone. If you or your partner experience pain or problems in Missionary position, Missionary Vibes will likely cause the same pain. If that's the case, don't fret: couple's vibrators can be used in virtually any sex position. Choose the sex positions that work best for your body, and slide in a vibrator!
